After the breakup, your only thought might be how to make him regret breaking your heart. This should not be an act of revenge, but instead you need to make him desire you so much that he will be sorry for ever letting you go. When you do that you will get your ex back forever. When a breakup occurs, it can leave you with many conflicting emotions: Heartache, sadness, confusion, and desperation. Of all of these emotions, desperation is the most dangerous one for you at this time. If you follow the instincts that are provided by emotion, you may lose any chance to get your ex back.

Being desperate and needy are two characteristics you do not want to show if you want to make him regret breaking your heart. To get your ex back, he needs to see a woman that is mature enough to accept the breakup and go ahead with her life. If you can project this image, he will wonder why he let such a woman go. But this will have to be his decision, you cannot force him to think this way. As hard as it might be, for now, you will have to let him go.

Trying to communicate with a man right after he has broken up with you will only lead to more rejection for you and more determination on his part to avoid you as much as possible. Since he wants to be left alone, your best tactic is to ignore him completely. Go back to the way you were before you met him. Take up old hobbies, do volunteer work, anything to keep busy. A good way to make him regret breaking your heart is to regain your self esteem and confidence. The woman he fell in love with was an attractive self-assured woman. To get your ex back, you need to be that way again.

A good way to raise your self esteem is to get a makeover. Go to a good salon and get the works. Shopping for new clothes always raises the spirits, so go on a shopping spree. Once you are all dressed up and looking irresistible, get with your girlfriends and go out on the town. Be sure to hit the places your ex hangs out and let him get a good look at the woman he threw away. Do not let him get close enough for conversation, just let him see you and then disappear.

Seeing how desirable you are will make him afraid that some other guy will be after you and he stands a good chance of losing you. This will make him try to contact you, but be unavailable. Do not answer his phone calls, emails or text messages for a few days. Let him work up a sweat. Then call him back and tell him you are glad he called because you wanted to tell him he was right about the breakup. It is the best for both of you. Wish him well and end the conversation. You will be well on you way to get your ex back forever.